Sunday, February 3, 2013

2. Bisexuality and relationships.

If they are attracted to both sexes, would they be more likely have an affair?


In a world with full of questions, you really don't know what the truths and lies is. We know in ourselves that there's a question that has never been answered yet. And I know some people are questioning this too. So, I did a research about it. Well, some people have their own opinions about this. They have their own explanation based on their experience. And people have their own definition about bisexuality and their relationships.

While researching, I came across "Different bisexuality and relationshipsIby Jennifer Moore". She discussed about what kind of bisexual you are and what kind of relationship you were having. If they be more likely to have an affair or something. There are some definitions about bisexuality and relationships:

Monogamy For a bi person in a monogamous (one partner) relationship, calling themselves bisexual says something about their potential to be with either a woman or a man. It doesn't mean they need both right now.It may mean that supposing they split up with their current partner, they could imagine being with either a woman or a man next.

Non-monogamy - Some bi people are in non-monogamous relationships. Even then, it doesn't necessarily mean that they choose to be with one man and one woman. They may be with two men, or two women, or some other combination. They may be non-monogamous for reasons unconnected with bisexuality.

Celibacy - Just because you have the potential to be with women or men, doesn't mean you necessarily want to be with either.

Currently single Like anyone, bi people may be "waiting for the right person to come along".

More on non-monogamy Not all non-monogamous relationships involve bisexuality or even homosexuality. Example one woman may have two male partners who are not sexual with each other. But non-monogamy is associated with bisexuality in many people's minds, so it's a subject that tends to come up in bi-education. Also, bisexuality and non-monogamy have a stereotype in common: that someone is indiscriminate about their sexual choices.

I have read a letter on the internet about a bisexual that her bisexual girlfriend ended up a relationship with men. It's a "Can I trust a bisexual woman?" by Benjamin Caplan who answered the question of a bisexual girl. It depends on people how they treat themselves as a bisexual. How they understands what bisexual is. But I think it's up to a person how they can manage this kind of relationships and situation. But for some, they were just saying that they were bisexual but not and they were using a real bisexual female for personal satisfaction. 

But for majority I guess. Bisexual female were serious with what they were having or for what they were experiencing right now. I mean, in the bisexual thing, being with the woman is a serious thing. And being a bisexual. 







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