Sunday, March 24, 2013

8. Female bisexual.



Females kind of mysterious. You'll never know what's running through their heads until you got surprise by their actions. But sometimes or most of the time , a bi-fem will be able to know if this female is a bisexual . By just looking or observing the girl's action, they can come up with a conclusion that this girl might be a bisexual.



While researching, I found this article entitled “Myths about  bisexual women”  by Stefan Anitei. They Said that sexual orientation was found to lie on a smooth continuum, and the way people state their orientation is often a poor predictor of their true sexual behaviors and fantasies. A new study published in Developmental Psychology further shows that female bisexuality is a fairly distinct sexual orientation, not something experimental or a passage to lesbianism.

Although, sexual attractions appear fairly stable, sexual identities and behaviors are more fluid. This fluid may be an inevitable consequence of the fact that most young women experience attractions for both sexes. This non-exclusivity leaves open the possibility for multiple identities and behaviors over time, even when attractions remain stable. Bisexuality is merely a phase in which people experiment with their sexuality until they develop a heterosexual or lesbian orientation. For these so-called “bi-curious” individuals, bisexuality is an intermediate sexuality that eventually develops into either an exclusively same-sex or exclusively other-sex orientation.

“I think people are born bisexual and the make subconscious choices based on the pressures of the society. “ It’s natural to be a bisexual because sometimes you’ll feel something different inside. Women are more generally heterosexual, because we have required men in order to be able to continue the human race. But women have also been attracted to other women because of our tendency to be more caring.

Nowadays, it doesn’t matter if you’re dating both sexes because people already expect that in females.  Women often feel more than ‘just’ friendship for their girlfriends. Perhaps this is why in society, bisexual women are considered more ‘normal’ than bisexual men. We have this subconscious feeling that men are supposed to be one way or the other, not anywhere in between.


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